Let Love Lead You

Knowledge is power, and it helps us excel in life. Even so, it can be a hindrance, especially in our church community.

How can knowledge be a hindrance?

Knowledge is a hindrance when we allow it alone to guide us. We see an example of this in 1 Corinthians. There were some in the church who had come to believe that:

an idol has no real existence,” and that “there is no God but one.” For although there may be so-called gods in heaven or on earth—as indeed there are many “gods” and many “lords”— yet for us there is one God, the Father, from whom are all things and for whom we exist, and one Lord, Jesus Christ, through whom are all things and through whom we exist.” (1 Co 8:4b–6)

For their understanding, we would praise God because what they believe is correct.

Where they went wrong, however, is in how they applied their knowledge. Since gods and idols are nothing, they concluded it was ok to attend meals thrown in pagan temples by their pagan friends, and even to eat the meat sacrificed to idols.

While their belief may be true, others in the church weren’t there yet. When they saw other brothers and sisters in the church participating in these activities, they were led to believe it was ok to combine these practices with their Christian faith, which resulted in their faith being destroyed (1 Cor. 8:11).

How should we use our knowledge?

(1) Love must lead us

As Paul begins chapter 8, at the end of verse 1 he says,

This knowledge puffs up, but love builds up.” (1 Cor. 8:1b).

Paul’s statement tells us love must lead us. Love should lead us because it has others best interest in mind. Unlike Knowledge, which often serve to puff us up, love is willing to sacrifice for another. Love is willing to give of our rights, desires, and freedom for the sake of another.

When we think about it, giving up our rights, desires, and freedoms is not our natural tendency. Naturally, we hold those things close because we are selfish. The only way we are going to love in a way that allows us to joyfully give up our rights, freedom, and desires at times for another is if we have experienced love like that ourselves.

I believe we experience that type of love in the gospel. The Father loved us so much that He gave of His only Son, Jesus. The Son, Jesus, loved us so much that He was willing to give of His life for us. He hung on a cross dying in our place, while the Father poured the wrath we deserve out on Him. Hanging there, receiving God’s wrath, Jesus gave up His rights, desires, freedom, and life for us. He gave of Himself to repair our relationship with the Father, so that we might have eternal life.

Experiencing the love and benefit of Christ’s sacrifice should motivate us to sacrifice for another. As Christians’, God’s love then should channel through us to others.

Love, true love, not the love pictured in movies or shows, should be what leads us. Love should lead us alongside our knowledge because love focuses on others, while knowledge by itself often focuses on us and our rights.

(2) At times, our rights must be sacrificed

While Paul agrees with the Corinthians that eating food offered to an idol is a matter of indifference, he also tells us that we are to use our “rights” in a way that does not cause another to stumble.

But take care that this right of yours does not somehow become a stumbling block to the weak.” (1 Cor. 8:9)

It might be our freedom to do something, but if our actions are harming another person’s faith instead of building them up, we must be willing to give that thing up. That’s what love does.

Whereas, knowledge looks at a situation and says: I have the freedom and right to do that. Love looks at a situation and asks: will my right harm another? Where we determine our actions could harm another’s faith; where it would tear them down instead of build them up, we don’t do it.

For instance, we live in a technologically savvy world. Facebook has become a normal part of our lives. One of the great things about Facebook, and social media in general, is the connections we can make with others.

Whereas in the past, we might have only been able to connect with and keep up with a small group of people in our own community, through Facebook we can connect with people halfway around the world and keep up with friends from our past.

With those connections comes influence. Influence like we have never had before. Through my posts I can influence the way people think not only in my immediate community, but also in my global community.

With influence comes responsibility.

As a member of Facebook, I have the freedom and right, to post almost anything, but as a Christian, that doesn’t mean I should. Instead, my first thought before posting something should be: How will this be perceived by another?

  • Will it be positive and build them up in their faith?
  • Will it tear them down in their faith?
  • Will it lead them to think or act in a way that is contrary to God’s Word?
  • Will it lead them into excess?

After answering those questions, we may conclude that our post is not beneficial. At that point, we have a decision to make. Will we give up our right to post what we were going to for the sake of another? Or will we go through with it because it is our right to do so? Paul tells us at times we must be willing to give up our rights for the sake of another.

(3) There is a difference between leading others into sin and leading others into the truth

I don’t want you to get the impression that we should never challenge another person. We should challenge other people to think and act differently, especially when we are challenging them to think and act in a more biblical way.

There is a distinction between leading others into sin and leading others into the truth. If we have knowledge that someone else doesn’t have, we may temper our actions, some of the things we post, or say in a public forum, if we know our actions would hinder their faith. That, however, doesn’t mean we don’t teach them what God’s Word says in another setting.

While our actions could lead another into sin. Dialoguing with them and teaching on a particular subject, where we can explain ourselves and expose them to Scripture can lead them into the truth.

Teaching, challenging, and dialoguing is something we should do. It is an area in which we shouldn’t hold back because our desire isn’t to make good, neat legalists, but gospel-centered followers of Jesus.

So there is a difference between leading others into sin and leading them into the truth. One we should do and one we shouldn’t do.

Conclusion

Love then should lead us. It should lead us because love will do what is best for others, whereas knowledge will more often do what is best for us.

Question for Reflection

  1. What are you allowing to lead you: Knowledge? Or love alongside your knowledge?

Resources

Post adapted from the sermon: Let Love Lead Youwhich you can listen to here. Image

Discipline and the Church

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What action should the church take when its members continue in unrepentant sin? With the Corinthians as our example, Paul tells us,

Let him who has done this be removed from among you.” (1 Cor. 5:2b)

As well as he says,

“[we should not] associate with anyone who bears the name of brother if he is guilty [and then he lists a number of sins] sexual immorality…greed…[idolatry], [revelry]…[drunkeness], or [swindling] — not even to eat with such a one.” (1 Cor 5:11b)

Harsh?

Doing something like this may seem harsh, it may seem excessive, but it is what God’s Word tells us to do, which means we aren’t to sweep people’s sin under the rug. We aren’t to turn a blind eye, or avoid dealing with another’s sin.

The Corinthians were avoiders. Their avoidance, their refusal to deal with the sin in their midst, led Paul to deal with them. He chides them for their failure to act, their apathy, and unwillingness to stand on God’s Word.

While we want to look at the Corinthians and point the finger, the troubling thing is that many churches can’t because they are doing the same — refusing to deal with their members’ sin.

Church Discipline is Beneficial

While avoidance is the easy thing to do, it is not what’s best because it is not what benefits the person or the church. Let’s look at those two points in turn.

(1) Church Discipline is what is best for the person

When you first read 1 Corinthians 5, you might not initially think church discipline is what is best for the person because Paul tells us to,

deliver this man over to Satan for the destruction of the flesh,” (1 Cor. 5:5a)

I don’t know about you, but delivering someone over to Satan so he can destroy them doesn’t lead me immediately to think this is something that is beneficial. However, if you keep going, the second half of the verse gives us the result.

so that his spirit may be saved in the day of the Lord.” (1 Cor. 5:5b)

You see what Paul is getting at? Do you see why it’s beneficial? Why it is what is best? It is what’s best because its purpose is repentance and salvation.

Church discipline then is never punitive, it is instead restorative.

Its purpose is always to drive the sinner to repentance and restoration with the Lord and the community.

Repentance and restoration are important results not only so the person can continue to be fed, nourished, and use their spiritual gifts in Christian community, but it’s also important for assurance of salvation. In all likelihood, those who refuse to repent, prove they are an unbeliever. They prove the gospel has never pierced their heart. The last thing we want to do as a church is give someone, who may be an unbeliever, the impression they are a believer because we don’t want the headache of dealing with their sin.

You can think of it like this. I know all of you have seen, or at least heard of the show American Idol. At the beginning of every season they always show highlights from the auditions. Without fail their are some who audition that truly believe they can sing, but in reality can’t.

When they go on the show, what happens? They end up on national television so every one can laugh at them, they get an ear full from the judges, especially when Simon was on the show, and they are rejected as a contestant.

When I see that I always wonder: Why didn’t one of their family members or friends tell them they couldn’t sing? Why weren’t they honest with them? Why didn’t they go to the audition and physically pull them out of line? Doing so would have saved them a lot of time, money, and embarrassment.

To be fair, I am sure there are some who did speak up, and there were probably others who tried pulling them out of line, but I know there were still others who didn’t do anything. While not doing anything is the easier thing to do, it is not what is best for the person.

Likewise, when it comes to dealing with people’s sin in the church, it’s much easier for us to avoid it, but that’s not what is best. It’s not what’s best because we aren’t just talking about whether a person will make it on a show or not, we are instead talking about whether a person makes it into heaven or not.

In 1 John 1:6, John writes,

“If we say we have fellowship with him [God] while we walk in darkness, we lie and do not practice the truth.” (1 Jn 1:6)

In verse 8 of the same chapter, John also says,

If we say we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us.” (1 Jn 1:8)

But look at the promise in verse 9,

If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” (1 Jn 1:9)

That is what we are ultimately after with church discipline — someone confessing their sin in repentance to God and being restored back into fellowship with the Lord and the church.

(2) Church Discipline is beneficial because it is what’s best for the church

Paul primarily tells the Corinthians this by way of illustration. Every year when the Israelite celebrated Passover, they would remove all the leaven from their homes and start with a batch of unleavened bread for a week in what is referred to as the Feast of Unleavened Bread. The removal of the leaven was symbolic of them being cleansed by the spilt blood of the Passover Lamb.

Symbolism, however, wasn’t the only reason they threw the leaven out. Leaven was limited in those days, so every time they made a new batch of bread, they would hold a little of the dough back. When they made the next batch, they would kneed some of the leftover dough in so that the bread would rise. As you can imagine, there were health risks associated with that practice. To mitigate the risk and keep any future batches from becoming contaminated, they removed the old leaven once a year.

Paul, with this yearly practice in mind, says starting in verse 6 says,

Your boasting is not good. Do you not know that a little leaven leavens the whole lump? Cleanse out the old leaven that you may be a new lump, as you really are unleavened. For Christ, our Passover lamb, has been sacrificed. Let us therefore celebrate the festival, not with the old leaven, the leaven of malice and evil, but with the unleavened bread of sincerity and truth.” (1 Cor. 5:6-8)

By using something they were familiar with, Paul tells them, and us, that the church is to remove unrepentant sinners: (1) So the church won’t be affected in a negative way. (2) As well as we are to remove unrepentant sinners so we can live as the new community Jesus has made us to be through His sacrifice.

Conclusion

So when someone in our congregation is actively rebelling against God by refusing to repent, we should take action not only for their benefit, but also for the benefit of the church.

Church discipline, then, shouldn’t be a taboo topic or action in the church today. It should be talked about and practiced because it ultimately brings the most glory to God and helps us accomplish our God given goal — to make disciples.

Question for Reflection

  1. Does your church deal with sin biblically?

Resource

Post adapted from the sermon: Are we dealing with sin biblically in our churches?

Eat the Word for Breakfast

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Every Friday morning at 6:30am for the last three years I have gathered with a group of men at IHOP for breakfast and Bible study.

The Plan – One Chapter

When we get together, our plan is to cover one chapter in God’s Word. As we cover that chapter, we work to understand what it means and how it applies to our lives, church, and culture. We don’t use any particular studies, nor is anyone designated as the teacher. We are all responsible for reading and studying ahead of time, and participating in the conversation. I was first introduced to this concept through David Helm’s book One to One Bible Reading.

The Effect – Changed Lives

The method is simple, but it has been effective. Over the last several years, we have covered all the Minor Prophets and most of the New Testament. During that time, not only has our knowledge of God’s Word and ability to interpret Scripture grown, but our minds have been renewed, our hearts transformed, and our actions corrected. As well as our relationships with one another have grown, allowing us the ability to encourage and help one another work through difficult situations and sin that the Word has exposed through our study.

Reflecting on the group and the changes over the last several years, I am reminded of the Cry of the Reformers

The church reformed and always being reformed according to God’s Word.

While I have always known God’s Word changes lives, experiencing it in my life and that of others has given me the confidence to stand with the Reformers of years past in calling for the primacy of God’s Word in our lives and churches.

The Encouragement – Eat the Word for Breakfast

Knowing the effect our gathering has had on our lives, I encourage you to do the same. Get together with a few people in your community and eat the Word for breakfast.

Question for Reflection

  1. How has consistently studying God’s Word changed your life and the lives of those around you?

Resources

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David Helm One to One Bible Reading

Tell Others How You Feel

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Before Jesus was arrested and put on trial, He retired to the Garden of Gethsemane to pray with His disciples. When He enters the garden, He takes three disciples with Him further into the garden to watch and pray.

Jesus Shares His Feelings

As they are leaving the others, Jesus’ soul becomes sorrowful and troubled. Jesus knows what is about to happen and He is deeply distressed over it. The distress Jesus feels wasn’t a I left my homework at home, or I can’t pay a bill, or I lost my job kinda distress. The distress Jesus is feeling is a distress that is like death itself.

I don’t know about you, but I have never been so sorrowful, so distressed that I could die. But Jesus was. He was because He knew what was about to happen to Him. The reality and the weight of the cross was bearing down on Him. In that moment, He relates His feelings to the three disciples with Him.

In verse 38 He tells them:

[His] soul is very sorrowful, even to death;[and He asks them to] remain here, and watch with [Him].”” (Mt 26:38)

You see, while Jesus was God, He was also man. It is a mystery how someone could be 100% God and 100% man, and I am not trying to solve that mystery for us now. I only want to point out that Jesus was human like you and I. As a human, He experienced feelings and emotions just like we do. He felt the weight of heavy situations, just like we do. He felt sorrow and distress, just like we do. Jesus felt these things because He is human just like we are.

A Comfort to Us

Knowing Jesus, the perfect God man, is human and feels emotions like we do should be comforting. It’s comforting because it tells us He can sympathize with what we are going through. So we need not be ashamed to bring our feelings to Jesus.

Human Emotions are OK

Not only does Jesus comfort us by displaying His emotions, but He also teaches us human emotion is ok. It is ok to feel, and to share your feelings with others.

True But Hard

While that is true, I believe sharing our feelings is something we aren’t comfortable with. And, at times, I would include myself in that group – the group that thinks they have to keep their feelings bottled up inside because they believe doing so makes you more of man or more independent.

That, however, is not true. Jesus shared His feelings with His disciples and you better believe He is more of a man than we could ever hope to be.

So we see then that it is ok to feel and it is ok to share those feelings. It’s ok to tell your kids you love them. It is ok to tell your spouse and your friends how you are feeling. These things are ok to do. Jesus did them and so should we.

Question for Reflection

  1. Do you struggle with sharing your feelings with others? Why?

Resources

Post developed from my sermon: Jesus Stayed, Even Though He Knew

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Get in the Game

Football Huddle

All too often Christians are found retreating into a holy huddle, to their own corner of the world that doesn’t include non-believers. But instead of gathering together in a holy huddle, I believe we are supposed to interact with and engage non-believers. If we don’t, then we can’t accomplish the Great Commission — to make disciples because we don’t know any non-believers.

If we want to win non-believers to Christ, we have to know non-believers.

It’s Easy to Do

The reason I bring this up is because I know it is easy for us as Christians to gather together in our holy huddle. For a time, that is fine, but at some point we have to break the huddle and engage those around us with the gospel, especially knowing that Jesus could return at any point.

A Silly Example that Rings True

Imagine throwing down a couple of hundred dollars for a ticket to a Cowboys game, fighting traffic all the way down to Arlington, and spending even more time finding a parking spot and even more money at the concession stand, only to see the Cowboys never break the huddle after fielding the first kickoff. No amazing play for a touchdown. No last minute “hail mary” to win the game. No, none of that happens, instead they turn the ball over to the other team because of delay of game penalties. Imagine seeing that.

We are no different than the Cowboys, if we remain in our holy huddle. Sure it is safe in there, but if we never engage anyone with the gospel, all we are doing is turning things over to the other team. That’s not good because the other team isn’t just going to score a touchdown. No, instead they are going to score someone’s soul.

Who Do You Know?

So instead of remaining in a holy huddle we need to engage those around us with the gospel. In order to engage non-believers with the gospel, we have to know non-believers.

A good question to ask yourself to see if you are stuck in a holy huddle or if you have broke and you are playing the game is simple: How many people do you know that is a non-believer?

When I say know, I don’t mean know of. Instead I mean how many do you know? How many people do you personally engage with on a weekly basis that is a non-believer?

We have to know non-believers in order to accomplish the Great Commission.

Questions for Reflection

  1. Are you stuck in a holy huddle or are you playing the game?
  2. Would you share some ways you get to know non-believers?

Resources

Post adapted from my sermon: Are you ready for the return of Jesus?

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It’s Necessary to Confront Others Who Are in Sin

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It is necessary to confront others in sin. Most people wouldn’t agree with my statement. Approaching others in sin is messy, difficult, and unpopular. Even so, it’s necessary for us to do it.

Jesus as Our Example

In Matthew 21, Jesus approaches the Chief Priests and Elders about their sin after He escaped their trap. Jesus could have let the Chief Priests and Elders walk away, but He doesn’t. Instead, He immediately goes on the offensive to point out their sin.

Now, Jesus doesn’t do that because He is mean or for some reason wants to inflate His own pride. No, Jesus does it in hope that they would see the error of their ways and repent. As well as He does it so the watching crowd would be protected from the lies and bad example of the Chief Priests and Elders.

Why We Should Point Out Others Sin

We should point out others’ sin for the same reason Jesus did.

(1) So they would repent and begin to actually follow Jesus.

As well as we should point out others sin:

(2) To protect the church.

You see, if we allow people to continue in sin without addressing it, those in the church might believe that lifestyle is acceptable. After all, so and so has: A live in girlfriend, is involved in an adulterous affair, abuses their spouse, does’t lead their family to attend church, is a crooked business man, is addicted to pornography, or whatever they might be involved in, and the church hasn’t addressed it, so it must be okay for me to live that way.

You see, if we don’t confront sin, if we don’t call people to repent, we not only hinder our witness to the community, but we also hinder the spiritual growth in our own church. So we must follow Jesus’ example. We must confront others in their sin.

Confront in Love With Great Care and Wisdom

Of course, we have to do this in love, with great care and wisdom, but we must do it. It is not only good for them and their spiritual growth, but it also protects the church.

Not Popular

I know confronting others in their sin is not popular. We live in a culture that likes to sweep things under the rug. We live in a culture that doesn’t like to deal with others’ sins. We live in a culture where if we start pointing out things in others’ lives, we are now meddling in their business.

Here, however, is the thing, while we all have a personal relationship with Jesus – meaning that we are saved individually – our relationship with Jesus is not a private one. When we become believers, we are born into a community. A community we refer to as the church.

The reason Christians are born into a community is so that we can help one another grow in Christ. Part of the way we help others grow is by lovingly exposing their sin. We can’t stop there though. After we expose another’s sin, we must also help them work through the process of repentance and growth.

Wrap Up

So while it’s not popular for us to confront others about their sin, it is necessary and something we are called to do.

Question for Reflection

  1. What are your thoughts about confronting others in sin?

Resources

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Post adapted from my sermon: Talk is Cheap, Walk the Walk