Men, Don’t Just Talk the Talk

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If you were to read the hobbies section on my Facebook, you would notice I am into reading, blogging, and running. I do all those things almost every week. If you keep reading, however, you will notice it also says I like to work out, rock climb, and surf. While those things are listed, if I am honest, I haven’t done any of those activities in quite a while.

Now, I can talk to you for hours about each of them. I know the lingo, but I don’t actually climb, surf, or workout anymore. So while I can talk the talk, I am not walking the walk.

TALKING THE TALK WITHOUT WALKING THE WALK

Often times a lot of churchgoers know how to talk the talk, but don’t walk the walk—especially those who have been around church for any length of time. They can talk all about the Bible and “churchy things” because they have been around it for most of their lives. However, when it comes to obeying all of Jesus’ commands (Matt. 28:20) they don’t do it. They aren’t walking the walk. Instead, they are just talking the talk.

Disciples of Jesus—those who have been regenerated by the Spirit, repented of their sins, and placed their faith in Jesus—not only talk about Scripture, they also allow it to guide their lives. They walk the walk.

Read the rest of my recently published article at Gospel Centered Discipleship

The Gospel and the Christian Life – Part 2

The Gospel and the Christian Life

Over the next several weeks we are going to follow the story line of Scripture from Creation to Jesus’ return in an effort to deepen our understanding of the Gospel and how Christians are to live after they have professed Christ as Lord and Savior. (Part 1)

The Fall/Sin

Adam and Eve continued to live in the perfect garden in a perfect relationship with God, each other, and creation until the day they rebelled against God. We read about their rebellion in Genesis 3.

God’s Command

When God placed Adam in the garden to work and keep it, He told him he could eat of every tree in the garden except one — the tree of the knowledge of good and evil. He wasn’t supposed to eat the fruit from that tree. If he did, God told him he would die.

Satan’s Temptation

After some time, Satan appeared in the garden as a serpent. He approached Eve and asked a question about the fruit from the tree God had forbidden them to eat:

He said to the woman, ‘Did God actually say, ‘You shall not eat of any tree in the garden’?’” (Gen. 3:1)

After Eve responds by telling him they aren’t supposed to eat from nor touch one tree in the garden, the serpent continues his deceptive tactics. He tells the woman,

You will not surely die.” Instead, “your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.” (Gen. 3:2-5).

Do you see what the serpent is doing? The serpent is lying to Eve by telling her God doesn’t want her to be happy. That God is holding something back, and it is not just fruit, it is being like God. Eve buys Satan’s lie. She believes him and eats the fruit. And Adam does as well (Gen. 3:6).

When they did, something happened. Their eyes were opened and they felt naked and ashamed, vulnerable. So they sewed fig leaves and covered themselves up.

What do we learn about sin?

(1) Sin always tricks or deceives us into doubting things that are true and believing things that are false. 

The woman was tricked by Satan into believing a lie. Believing something that wasn’t true. She believed God lies to us and that He withholds something from us.

God, however, doesn’t lie to us, nor does He withhold from us. God does and always wants what is best for us. We see that in the rules He places on our life. They are there to help us live in the way He has designed us to live, not to hinder us or limit our freedom.

After Adam and Eve ate the fruit, they discovered Satan was lying because they didn’t become like God, instead they felt ashamed and realized they were naked. They were plunged head first into a world of sin and death.

We learn from Adam and Eve that we should’t believe the lie of sin. We should instead resist its temptation because we know it will not deliver on its promises.

When I was a kid, my mom placed limits on how far I could go from my house. I had to stay close enough to hear my mom when she came outside calling for me. I remember one time in particular, I went too far from the house. My mom called, but I didn’t hear her. When I finally came home, my mom asked where I had been. I knew I had gone too far from the house, but I didn’t want to tell her because I didn’t want to get in trouble, so I lied. I told her I was at a friend’s house. Somehow, she knew. She knew I lied to her. Instead of getting away with it, I got caught and was punished.

You see, sin held out the promise of freedom — freedom from the boundaries my mom set and freedom from the punishment that would come from breaking those rules, but it didn’t deliver. And that’s the thing about sin. It never delivers on its promises, but it deceives us into thinking it will.

(2) Sin involves us turning from God to live our own way.

When God placed Adam and Eve in the garden, He told them not to eat of the fruit of the tree and He told them what would happen if they did. Adam and Eve, however, turned away from God to live according to their own understanding.

And that’s what sin does. It turns us away from God. It causes us to think we know what’s best when we really don’t.

God’s ways are always best for us, which is why it’s important we continue to learn about God’s ways through reading His Word, attending Bible Studies, and church services.

(3) Sin always results in harm, ruin, and death. 

Eating the fruit of the forbidden tree did exactly what God said it would do. It brought death. Eve’s relationship with creation, Adam, and God was broken after her first bite.

After eating the fruit and rebelling against God, Adam and Eve’s relationship with creation was ruined, so that now the animals of the field were dangerous to be around. As well as their work on the land would be hard and labor intensive.

Their relationship with God was ruined as well. While they once walked with God in the garden in the cool of the day, they were now at odds with God.

Their relationship with one another was ruined too. Getting along with one another was once easy. They didn’t fight, use or abuse one another. Now, their relationship was different. Arguments occurred, strained relationships, fights, and abuse occurred.

Not only did their sin affect their relationships, but it also brought death, disease, sickness and all things bad. So Adam and Eve’s rebellion, their sin, polluted God’s good creation. What was once perfect was made imperfect. Sin ruined the perfect world God created. It is the reason things are not as they seem they should be. So sin always results in death, harm and ruin. It never results in life or goodness.

Reflect

  1. Have you ever experienced a time when your sin — breaking God’s or others rules — didn’t deliver on its promises? How did you feel? What did you learn?
  2. How do you view God’s commandments? Do you see them as unnecessary rules or as a guide for your life?
  3. What does sin cause us to do to God?
  4. How would you explain to someone why people do bad things to others in the world?

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Some posts structure influenced by Big Truths for Young Hearts by Bruce Ware

The Gospel and the Christian Life – Part 1

The Gospel and the Christian Life

Over the next several weeks we are going to follow the story line of Scripture from Creation to Jesus’ return in an effort to deepen our understanding of the Gospel and how Christians are to live after they have professed Christ as Lord and Savior.

Creation

To better understand the gospel, the good news about Jesus, we first need to understand who God is. The answer to this question begins at creation.

Something From Nothing

Genesis 1:1 tells us God created everything, which means the world as we know it did not exist before God spoke it into being. There was absolutely nothing. God took nothing and created something just by speaking.

God’s way of creating is different than ours. Everything I have ever made — a dog house, a model airplane, an erupting volcano for my elementary school science project — I made from material already in existence. God, however, took nothing and created something.

With No Help

When God created the world, He didn’t have any help. John 1:3 tells us,

All things were made through him, and without him was not any thing made that was made.”

So God didn’t have any help when He created the world. He didn’t call his friends or family over. He created it alone, which means no one else or any other gods are responsible for creation.

The Owner Of It All

Since God created everything, He owns everything including you and I. As well as He has the right to rule over all things and use it all as He sees fit.

When I was a kid, I enjoyed going to the beach. One thing I would do at the beach is build a sand castle. You know the great thing about building sand castles? You are its king. As the king you can do whatever you want with it. You can play in it, look at, or you can do what I like to do — destroy it. There is nothing better than plowing through a nicely built sand castle, except maybe getting in the ocean to wash all the sand off.

God’s kingship and right to rule is like ours, except on an infinitely greater scale. He not only has the right to rule over a sand castle, but all of creation.

Our Response to God’s Kingship

Since God is our Creator and King, we should worship and obey Him. Revelation 4:11 says,

““Worthy are you, our Lord and God, to receive glory and honor and power, for you created all things, and by your will they existed and were created.”” (Re 4:11)

Worshipping God means we show a deep respect and love for Him. We worship Him by praising Him, as well as by exalting or holding Him in high regard. When you come to church on Sunday, you do all these things. You praise God by singing of His attributes, abilities, and actions. As well as you hold Him in high regard by reading, studying and learning from His Word.

Not only should we worship, by praising and exalting God, but we should also worship Him by obeying Him. Obeying God means we think, do, and act as He wants. In other words, we live according to His will.

How do we know God’s will?

God reveals His will in His Word — the Bible. The Bible then isn’t just a book of stories, nor is it just a book of rules. The Bible is a book about God and man. It reveals who God is, who we are, what He has done, and what we are to do. So if we want to know about God, we go to His word. If we want to know about ourselves, we go to His Word. If we want to know what God has done, we go to His Word. And if we want to know how we are to live, we go to God’s Word.

So How and Where Do Humans Come Into the Creation Picture?

After God created the world and everything in it, including the first human – Adam. He placed Him in the garden (Gen. 2:8). After some time, He created Eve to be Adam’s wife and helper (Gen. 2:18-25).

While in the garden, Adam and Eve had a relationship with God. One that was perfect and unblemished. Genesis 3:8 suggests they would gather in the garden with God.

Not only did they have a perfect relationship with God, but they also had a perfect relationship with each other. They didn’t fight, lie, gossip, or mistreat each other.

The world in which they lived was perfect. There was no sickness, disease, pain, hardship and so on. It was, as God said, “good” (Gen. 1:31). Everything existed in perfect harmony.

Reflect

  1. How does God create?
  2. Since God is the Creator, He is the what over all things?
  3. Why is it important we read and study God’s Word?
  4. Do you find that you want to live in a perfect world like Eden? Do you believe others want this as well?

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Some posts structure influenced by Big Truths for Young Hearts by Bruce Ware

Why Do Church Members Think the Pastor is the Only Minister?

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Why do church members think the Pastor is the only minister? I asked that question last night during our Community Group meeting.

The Answer

Talking with my wife afterwards and thinking through the responses this morning, it seems congregants don’t believe they are on par with their pastor when it comes to their ability to minister. Pastors are put in a different category, thought to play in a different league, or are seen as higher on the hierarchal scale of spirituality. They are the professional. As the professional, they are the ones who do the “real” ministering.

The Reality

I, however, don’t believe that’s true. While my full-time vocation is ministry, I don’t see myself as higher up the spiritual scale as others. Nor do I believe I am playing in a different league than my congregants. There are those in my congregation who can minister just as effectively, if not better, than I can.

While, at times, my knowledge of the Bible, Theology, Hermeneutics, and Ecclesiology might be greater, my life experiences are still limited, my relationships don’t run as deep, and my ability to comfort is, at times, not as great.

Knowledge doesn’t always equal better ministry.

Additionally, if a Pastor’s main job is to equip the saints for the work of ministry (Eph. 4), that necessitates others in the congregation are not only given the responsibility to minister, but also have the ability to minister. A little coaching or training might be needed, but ministry is possible.

Don’t Sell Yourself Short

So don’t sell yourself short. You have the ability to minister. You might not be able to answer every theological question thrown at you, but ministry is much more than sharing knowledge. It is also about sharing wisdom. Wisdom that is gained from years of walking with the Lord and applying His Word to your life.

Question for Reflection

  1. How do you minister alongside your Pastor?

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Are You Ready For Your Wedding?

Wedding

If you know anything about weddings, you know they are all about the bride and groom. Think about it. They are the ones who select the theme, the location, and the date and time. They don’t phone you to ask what theme you would like or what date works for you. No, what happens? You walk out to the mailbox one day and there is an invitation waiting on you telling you what the wedding be like and the date and time it will be on. You are then expected to clear your calendar and show up on that date and time.

On the day of the wedding, it doesn’t matter what is happening in your life. It doesn’t matter that you woke up late, misplaced your keys, or that your children have been running around crazy. You are still expected to be at the church on time ready for the wedding to start.

In the same way, Jesus expects us to be ready for His wedding, but instead of sending us an invitation with the date and time, He tells us that we are to always be ready.

How Can We Be Ready?

In order of us to be ready, our heart has to be changed. We have to have turned to Jesus as our Lord and Savior. Without a heart change, there is no hope for us because only a changed heart will allow us to be fully committed to Jesus.

There is no room for quasi-Christians

There is no room for those who are straddling the fence. Those who are half committed.

It is sad, but I believe that is where most of the church is at today. They are half committed fence straddlers. They turn to God only when it is convenient, when it works for them, when He’s helping them with life.

Jesus, however, is not looking for fence straddlers, those who want God on their own terms. Instead, He wants us to deal with  Him on His terms. His terms is full and continued obedience and commitment to Him. If that’s not us. If we are only half committed, then we are no better than the church at Laodicea. We are lukewarm. Jesus will say and do to us exactly what He says to them.

…because you are lukewarm and neither hot nor cold, I will spit you out of my mouth.” (Rev. 3:16).

So if you have been playing church, quit. If you aren’t fully committed, quit straddling the fence and jump all in. A half commitment is no commitment at all. We must be all in or nothing. If we aren’t, then we aren’t prepared. We aren’t ready for Jesus to come. We aren’t ready for our wedding day.

Question for Reflection

  1. Are you fully committed to Jesus?

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Post adapted from my sermon: The Wise are Always Prepared for Jesus’ Return

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How Do You Know If You are Ready for Jesus to Return?

Jesus' Return

How do you know if you are ready for Jesus to return? Different people give different answers. Some say I am an American; while others believe they are ready because they walked an aisle, raised a hand, and said a prayer; still others believe they are ready because they have lived a good life, helping lots of people.

What, however, does the Bible? To be sure, it does not answer in the way most would.

What does the Bible Say?

The Bible tells us that we can know we are ready for Jesus’ return by continually living according to Jesus’ will. The parable of the faithful and unfaithful servant exemplify this idea (Matthew 24:45-51).

In the parable, the faithful servant remained true to his master’s wishes the entire time he was gone, while the unfaithful servant didn’t. Instead of following his master’s will, he followed his own.

So we can know that we are ready for Jesus’ return if we are continually living according to His will.

Why is that so?

Because that is what Jesus’ judgment is based on. You see, Jesus’ judgment isn’t based on some decision we made in the past. Rather it is based on how we are currently living. It is based on our faithfulness.

If we prove ourselves to be faithful to Him at His return by continually living according to His will, then we will experience a joyous reward. If, however, we prove ourselves to be unfaithful to Him at His return by living according to our own will, we will experience eternal torment.

So we show that we are ready for Jesus’ return by continually living according to His will, by continually living as a faithful servant.

Clarification – Not a Works Based Salvation

Now, when I say we are judged according to our faithfulness, I am not advocating a works based salvation. Instead what I am saying is that our works reveal our true nature. The way we live reveals our heart as it really is, which means we can’t just rest in a decision we have made in the past. Instead, we must rest in how we are living for Jesus now.

And so, if you are not living as a faithful servant, if you are not living according to God’s will, if you are not continually growing in your Christian walk and becoming more like Christ, if these things are not taking place in your life, then you are not a faithful servant no matter what decision you made in the past.

It is not about what we “have done” rather it is about what we “are doing.”

I bring this up because a lot of people think they are going to heaven based of some decision they made years ago. While there is a time when our heart is given to Christ, we can’t base our eternal destiny on a decision alone, especially if that decision hasn’t affected the way we live.

Those whose hearts are given to Christ, those who “decide for Christ”, change. They change to become a faithful servant – someone continually living according to Jesus’ will. If that has not happened in your life, then you haven’t given your heart to Jesus. You are not going to experience eternal life because you aren’t a follower of Jesus.

Jesus is looking for followers not just deciders

Sure, you might have changed for a short time, but if you are not living as a Christian now, if you aren’t living as a faithful servant now, then when Jesus returns, you are not going to be rewarded, rather you are going to be punished.

Faithful servants of God are prepared for Jesus’ return, and they show they are prepared by continually living according to Jesus’ will.

Question for Reflection

  1. Do you see a continual change in your life, or are you just resting in a decision you made in the past?

Resources

Adapted from my sermon: What does it look like to be a faithful servant of God?

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