How are We to Love Others? – Part 1

Love others

As disciples, our love should imitate Jesus loves for us. But what exactly does that look like. In other words, how are we to love others as an imitation of Jesus’ love?

How are We to Love Others As an Imitation of Jesus’ Love?

(1) Jesus’ Love is Self-Sacrificial

Smack dab in the middle of the verse 16 in 1 John 3, John says:

[Jesus] laid down his life for us.” (1 Jn. 3:16b)

Then John goes on to tell us, based on what Jesus did, we ought to lay our life down for others. When he says that, he doesn’t mean we should all go out and kill ourselves for the benefit of others. While Jesus gave up His physical life for others, He gave up much more than that. He also sacrificed His desires, what he could have been, what He could have done, for our benefit; for our good.

So when we talk about loving others self-sacrificially, we aren’t talking about us offing ourselves for another. Instead we are talking about something more. We are talking about dying to self for the good of others.

When I think of someone who sacrificed for another like this, I think of Lloyd Latimer, who is Jen’s granddad. About 8 or so years ago, his wife Ruth, who just recently passed, suffered a stroke. She survived but was physically limited. One side of her body was paralyzed.

This happened when they were in their 80’s. But even though he was getting up in age, he didn’t want to put his wife in a nursing home, so he committed to take care of her. For about 8 years he did. He cooked all their meals, got all the groceries, cleaned the house, took her to all her doctor’s appointments. He bathed her, took her to the bathroom, and even dressed her. Everyday, 24 hours a day, he took care of her.

In order to do that, he had to make some sacrifices. He had to give up his wants, his comfort, his desires for his wife’s. He did that — he was willing to die to self — because he loved his wife.

So when we talk about love being self-sacrificial, what we are talking about is dying to self for the good of others, which tells us love is more than a feeling. Love is an action.

Question for Reflection

  1. How have you loved someone self-sacrificially?

Resources

Post adapted from the sermon Love Others – Growth through discipleship – week 3

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On The Gospel’s Role in the Great Commission

The Great Commission actually begins with a great announcement. Before there can be a mission, there has to be a message. Behind the sending of the church lies the Father’s sending of his Son and Spirit. Before we go, we must stop and hear – really hear – what has happened that we are to take to the world. The evangel (good news) comes before evangelism.

We must hear this gospel not just at first, for our own conversion, but every moment of our lives if the Great Commission is to be a joyful delight rather than an intolerable burden with an impossible goal.

Hear it again, with all the supporting evidence of Christ’s incarnation, life, death and resurrection: “All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me.”

Question for Reflection

  1. Do you allow the gospel message to spur on your Great Commission activity?

Resources

Michael Horton, The Gospel Commission.

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What Might a Church’s Discipleship Process Look Like?

Discipleship

Recently, I finished a year long discipleship process with the Baptist Association in my area. The purpose of the process was for each pastor involved to develop a discipleship process they would implement in their church. Here is the process I developed.

What Might a Church’s Discipleship Process Look Like?

If you visit my church’s website, on the top right you will see the tagline: Taking you from Come and Worship, to Go and Serve in Christ. That tagline reveals the church’s discipleship process.

(1) Come and Worship

What that simple means is come to the main worship service. We’ve designed our main worship service to be all about Jesus. We see it as a time where you can grow in your love for God as you learn more about who He is and what He has done for you.

(2) Stay and Connect

Not only do we want our members and regular attenders to consistently come to the main worship service, but we also want them to stay and connect with others in our church. We primarily see them doing that through our Sunday School classes, but also through Community Groups and Bible Studies.

In these classes they will not only learn more about Jesus, but they also have an opportunity to build relationships with others. The opportunity to build relationships is important because if they are going to grow in their love for others, they need to have relationships. Relationships that allows them to know how best to love and serve each other.

(3) Go

What I mean by this is for the church to go and spread the gospel message to others in the community.

Part of being a disciple is sharing the gospel, so our church needs to help it’s members do that. Not through a church evangelization program, but rather by training and encouraging them to live as missionaries in their own community.

I am convinced that by training and encouraging them to do what missionaries do — build relationships with others with the intention of sharing the gospel — they will be an effective evangelical force in the community.

(4) Serve

Disciples are those who follow Jesus in serving the church and community, so as part of a discipleship process we need to not only encourage the church to serve but to provide opportunity for them to serve.

We have a lot of opportunities within the church to serve — Nursery, Children’s church, Work days, Women’s Missions Ministry, Media booth — as well as there are a lot of service opportunities outside of the church. To highlight these opportunities, I created a page on our website so folks can see what areas we and the community need help in.

I believe that if we take the opportunities given to us to serve the church and community, we are going to continue to grow as a disciple.

(5) Bring others along

Disciples are those who make disciples. The best way for you to do that is by bringing someone along on the journey with you. To that end, I am encouraging those in my congregation to bring people to the worship service, Sunday School, Communities Groups, to bring others along when they serve or share their faith, and to sit down with another person and discuss God’s Word with them and pray.

Disciples are those who make disciples and one of the best ways to do that is just by bringing others along on the journey with you.

Visual

Here is a visual that goes along with my process:

Discipleship Process

Question for Reflection

  1. What process do you have for making disciples at your church?

Resources

Post adapted from my sermon: Introduction – A Discipleship Process for the Church – Week 1

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What Might We Believe Discipleship is, But Isn’t? – Part 2

Discipleship

If you have been in church for any length of time or if you are a new believer, you have probably heard the word discipleship. Most likely you have been encouraged to participate in some sort of  Discipleship process. That is because discipleship is important. It is what helps us to grow as believers. But do we get discipleship wrong? I believe we often do. I believe this because we limit the scope of what we believe discipleship is.

What might we believe discipleship is, but isn’t?

(3) We might believe discipleship is an easy thing that doesn’t take any effort.

But if we believe that, we are wrong. While salvation is free, discipleship takes work. Jesus puts it bluntly in Luke 9:23:

If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me.” (Lk 9:23)

And Paul in Philippians 2:12 tells us to:

Work out your own salvation with fear and trembling” (Philippians 2:12b)

So we can’t grow to be more like Christ without putting forth effort.

When I was in seminary, I had to take two language classes — Greek and Hebrew. The first language class I took was turbo Greek. They call it turbo Greek because they squish two semesters worth of Greek into two months. I took these two classes over the summer and they were the only classes I took.

One thing I realized quickly was that if I was going to learn this language, I had to put in the effort and that required me to do more than just show up for class. So that summer I spent hours flipping through vocabulary cards, doing practice exercises, and memorizing charts. Any chance I got I worked on Greek. I even downloaded an app to my phone so I could work on it while Jen and I were out shopping or I had a spare moment. While it was a lot of work, it paid off. I ended up doing pretty well in the class.

Just as learning a foreign language doesn’t happen just by showing up to class, becoming a fully mature disciple of Jesus doesn’t happen just by showing up to church once a week. It takes effort and time, it’s not an easy thing, so our discipleship process has to involve more than just showing up to church once a week.

(4) We might believe discipleship can be programmed.

Before I surrendered to full-time ministry, I worked in sales. My first sales job was at CBeyond. It’s a telecommunications company that sells Voice Over IP systems. I worked for them in Atlanta.

One of the things that initially drew me to this company was their training program. It was one of the better programs in the industry for new sales associates. And since this was my first sales job, I thought it would be good to go to a company that had a good training program.

When I started for the first 2 to 3 weeks all I did was classroom training. Everyday I came in we would learn something new about the company. We would practice some sales tactics, we would do mock cold calls. All kinds of stuff that was supposed to get us ready to go out into the field.

While the training was good and necessary, when I finished that training I wasn’t a mature sales associate because I hadn’t had real world experience. I knew about the company, I knew some sales tactics, I went through their training program, but I hadn’t put any of this stuff into practice yet.

Similarly, we can’t become fully mature disciple of Jesus just by going through a 6 week class, reading a book, or attending a Bible study once a week. It doesn’t work that way because discipleship can’t be programmed. It requires us to get some real world experience.

Real world experience is required because discipleship involves your whole life and it takes a lifetime.

I was reading a magazine recently put out by The Navigators — They are a missions organization. In that magazine, I came across a story about the community of Bukhalu, which is in Uganda.

The community in Bukhalu had been formed by former criminals who were run out of town, which meant Bukhalu was not your ideal place to live. It was primarily made up of witches, murderers, and other criminal types. But the mission’s team highlighted in the magazine felt God calling them to go work with this community.

After working with them for two years — explaining the gospel to them and urging them to repent and believe in Jesus — these folks started seeing some remarkable transformations in the community.

One guy in particular who came to faith was Stephen. Stephen is a local government leader, who when asked about the Bible and the transformation it brought to the community said,

“The Bible has told us about our sin and how we can receive Christ… We’ve learned that drunkenness wastes time and money and if we stop we find better lives. We’re also learning how to love our wives.”

That last piece was very important to this community. Stephen told them that domestic disputes were common. As a government official he would have to step in and help settle these disputes often. Something he used to have to do several times a week before this team brought the gospel to their city. Now, he said, he only had to help settle disputes maybe once or twice a month.

On top of these moral changes the community also saw numerous day-to-day lifestyle changes. Instead of leaving their compound dirty and getting water from the river, they started cleaning up and getting fresh water from a bore hole which helped to improve the health of their children.

All these things happened because of the gospel.

Conclusion

So you can see that being a disciple is more than just gaining information. It is more than just a six week study or a program we go through. It’s more than just you and Jesus getting alone somewhere. Discipleship involves others, it involves our whole life. It changes our whole way of thinking and how we do things. And these changes don’t just occur in a couple of weeks. They occur over a lifetime of effort.

Question for Reflection

  1. What would you add to this list?

Resource

Post adapted from the sermon: A Discipleship Process for the Church

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What Might We Believe Discipleship is, But Isn’t? – Part 1

Discipleship

If you have been in church for any length of time or if you are a new believer, you have probably heard the word discipleship. Most likely you have been encouraged to participate in some sort of  Discipleship process. That is because discipleship is important. It is what helps us to grow as believers. But do we get discipleship wrong? I believe we often do. I believe this because we limit the scope of what we believe discipleship is.

What might we believe discipleship is, but isn’t?

(1) We might believe discipleship is just gaining religious knowledge.

Because we believe this, discipleship becomes “Read this. Study this. Memorize this.” Don’t get me wrong, we need to read — I am a big advocate of reading. We need to study. We need to memorize Scripture. We need to grow in our knowledge of God’s Word. But discipleship involves more than these things.

Discipleship involves Christ-like transformation. Our goal, as Paul says in Romans 8:29 is:

to be conformed to the image of His Son,” (Rom. 8:29).

That is not going to happen just by gaining religious knowledge, so we need a process that involves more than just classroom activities. We need something that focuses on our whole life so that our whole man is transformed.

(2) We might believe discipleship is a solitary endeavor.

It is just Jesus and me getting together. While discipleship is all about Jesus, it’s not a solitary endeavor. Discipleship is relational. It requires us spending time with other believers, so we can’t just get alone with Jesus somewhere and expect to become a fully mature disciple.

We need others to help us grow, which is exactly what Paul is getting at in Ephesians 4:11-13 when he tells us that Jesus:

…gave the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, the shepherds and teachers,…

And why did he give them?

…to equip the saints for the work of ministry,

So the saints can do what?

…for building up the body of Christ,…

What is the result of this building up?

…[it is the] unity of the faith and of the knowledge of the Son of God, to mature manhood, to the measure of the stature of the fullness of Christ,” (Eph 4:11–13)

So we need each other to become fully mature disciples of Jesus.

When I was in high school and college, I used to work out all the time. I went to the gym four times a week and I would work out for a couple of hours each time I went. And to help with my workouts, I read books and magazines. I took supplements. I charted my workouts — writing down how much weight I was lifting and how many reps I was able to do.

While all those things helped, I don’t think I would have seen any of the gains I saw had it not been for my workout partners. Had it not been for Mike and Randall, encouraging me to go to the gym and pushing me while I was there, I don’t believe I would have seen any of the gains I realized during that time.

Just like we need workout partners to help us grow physically, we need workout partners in the church to help us grow spiritually.

So if we want to grow as disciples and become mature believers, we have to have a community of believers around us challenging, encouraging, teaching, and building us up. We can’t just get alone with Jesus somewhere, we have to have others in our lives.

Question for Reflection

  1. What would you add to this list?

Resource

Post adapted from the sermon: A Discipleship Process for the Church

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How Should Christians Live in the In-Between?

City

A perfect future kingdom awaits those who believe in Jesus as their Lord and Savior. A kingdom with no sickness, death, disease, injustice, war, oppression, etc – a perfect kingdom. Now, however, we live in the already/not yet. The period where we can taste victory, but we can’t fully enjoy it because Jesus’ hasn’t yet returned.

One author captures the tension well when he says,

“The kingdom of God is both the foundation of the church and the goal of the world. Therefore, we have and we hope; we give thanks and we sigh for more.” – Kelly Kapic

So we live in the in-between. As we live in the already/not yet, how should we live our daily lives? Should we pull back to the fringes? Divorce ourselves from society? Or should we do something else?

How Should Christians Live in the In-Between?

We should do what Israel was told to do in Jeremiah 29: Work for the good of the city, for as the city flourishes we flourish (Jer. 29:5-7). As Christians we should lay down roots, conduct business, get married, have children pray for our leaders, and work to make the city a better place.

We can do that in at least three ways.

(1) Politics and Laws

Here is what one theologian says,

“True justice exists only in the society of God, and this will be truly fulfilled only after the Judgment. Nevertheless, while no society on earth can fully express this justice, the one that is more influenced by Christians and Christian teaching will more perfectly reflect a just society. For this reason, Christians have a duty toward government.” – Webber

Sure, politics aren’t going to solve all our problems, but politics and laws have a huge influence on our society.

“Laws express moral beliefs and judgments…They tells citizens what our society ought to value and condemn, what is worthy of our respect and what we should disapprove of.” – Gerson & Wehner

Think about the state of Colorado: Marijuana is now legal. That is a big deal. Not only because people now have access to drugs, but because it is going to influence people’s moral views on Marijuana.

Right now, some citizens may see it as morally wrong, but think about how people will see it in fifty years. As a generation comes and goes the view that it is wrong to use marijuana is going to fade into the background. And that is going to take place because a law was passed. So we can’t neglect the importance of politics and laws. They shape and influence our moral lives.

So when there is an election, we should be aware of the issues and educate our families and friends. We should vote and encourage others to do the same. Some of us should even get into politics.

(2) Truly Living as Disciples of Jesus

I was sitting with a friend at Starbucks the other day talking about how we as Christians can bring about change and work for the good of the city. And he asked this question,

“What if the world saw disciples actually living out their calling?”

I thought that was good a question. Think about it: What if we really lived as true disciples? What kind of impact do you think that would have on our community, city, country? Think about the witness we would be, the change we could bring, the difference we could make by truly living as Jesus did.

Now, you might be thinking, we have already tried that. This nation was founded by Christian men on Christian principles. While that is true, I would argue we haven’t always lived out our calling. Sure some Christians do, but a lot of people who claim to be Christians don’t live as Jesus did.

But what if we all did? I believe if we did, our society would be radically changed.

(3) Preaching the Gospel

I left this one for last because I believe it’s the most important. I believe that because the gospel changes hearts, which is important because our heart isn’t just the organ that pumps our blood, it’s our inner self.

In Psalm 51:10, when David prayed saying,

Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me.” (Ps 51:10)

He wasn’t asking God for a literal heart transplant, instead he was asking God to change his will, desires, affections. He was asking God to transform him, so he lived and acted differently. That is what the gospel does. It transforms people, so that they live differently. So if we want to work for the good of our city and see true change in this country, we have to preach the gospel.

Question for Reflection

  1. What else should Christians do in the in-between?

Resources

Post adapted from the sermon: Hope is Not Lost

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